Shatel Peters joins us to explore ways to gain a better understanding of our sexual dreams. She provides insights on techniques to awaken and stimulate the Third Eye Chakra, allowing for more vivid dreaming experiences. Additionally, she shares the importance of nurturing the Sacral Chakra, which influences our self-confidence and sexual relationships.
What do dreams mean in our conscious world, and where are they coming from?
Dreams come from our subconscious. And I always say if you’re someone who is religious, you might call it God or Buddha or something; I use the word universe. So that’s how I’m going to be referring to the spiritual world in this episode with you.
The Spiritual World connects with us in different ways. And one of the ways that it connects with us is through dreams. When you’re sleeping, you’re actually in a state of mind where your subconscious is insanely wide open. That’s why you can receive these really intense messages that may not make sense, because you don’t really understand your subconscious in the conscious world.
And also, a lot of times when we are not awake to getting messages in the physical world and the stuff in the conscious world, we will receive them in the dream world because your subconscious definitely wants you to be able to hear this in the subconscious world. You’re not going to be able to ignore it.
What advice do you have for people when they are wanting to have a deeper understanding of their dreams?
I definitely go to Google, but the reason why people say not too is because our dream may not always mean what Google is saying. I have a friend who dreams about her ex boyfriend all the time. If you look it up on Google it’ll tell you you’re secretly in love with him. And she has a husband and a child. And she’s very much over him. What her dream probably means that she has unresolved trauma with that relationship; that she’s not getting over. That’s why it’s not always a good idea to go to Google. But I do it. We all do it. Just take it with a grain of salt.
Now, if you want to know the very specific definition, and you want it to be cut and dry, get dream books. Write down all the really big moments in the dream, and then look up the definitions. What I want to emphasize is you want to look at the big things in your dream. The small details don’t necessarily mean too much. Then try to figure out exactly what it means.
Another way that you can do it is to find a dream interpreter. I found one on etsy once to help me understand a really crazy dream. It was a very specific dream that I just knew meant something, and I knew that Google was too far-fetched for me to really understand. She is like a psychic medium. You type in the box, what your dream was, and then they interpret everything that you went through. It was really affordable. So if you don’t want to use a book, if you don’t want to use Google, an interpreter is always an option. There are many dream interpreters out there.
What are some common types of sex dreams, and what do they typically symbolize or represent in our waking lives?
One common sex dream is having sex with your ex lover. One thing that I want to make sure people understand is that it doesn’t mean that you’re secretly in love with him or her. You may be if that’s something that you desire, and this is the way that your subconscious is handling it. But most likely it is what I was saying with my friend who has dreams like this. Something in your subconscious is not healed, and it’s coming out in a form of sex in your dream because when you think about sex, that’s high emotional intimacy, and if you think about unhealed trauma, that’s high emotional intimacy. So, you being very vulnerable in an emotional state could come out as sex in your dream. I’m not saying that it’s always gonna come that way, but it is a likely possibility.
Having sex with a celebrity or something like that is another common dream, that’s something that’s super fun and exciting. If you are feeling that you really like this, it may be your subconscious telling you that you need to have more exciting sex in your life or something more exciting and fun.
If you’re having lesbian sex in your dream, I would say the interpretation is that you need to have more fun with yourself, more intimate sex with yourself. This is because the woman in the dream is most likely an extension of your subconscious mind. So, masturbate more, have more shower sex with yourself, watch more porn, really get to know yourself.
To hear Shatel talk more about understanding your sex dreams, the role of your Third Eye Chakra, listen to episode 172 on the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast.
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